Is it good to have a friend with "rights"?

[JLo32]

#12675

With benefits? Well…I’m not the kind of person that does. But if you want to you should both talk extensively about it. Talk about the arrangement, how you feel about it, what you want out of it, what would happen if you got feelings for each other, what would happen if you start seeing someone else. And most importantly about safety, how many people will you both be sleeping with, etc.

[Valeria Maselli]

#13203

Yeah I’m not the kind of person who has a friend with benefits either. If you want to go into a relationship then do, if you want to just stay friends then do. But decide between the too of you what you really want, because starting a relationship indecisive isn’t really leading you anywhere.

[sofiabenitez2993]

#13440

it’s not about being “good” or “bad” it’s just about how you feel. you can do it if you want but you always need to think about the pros and cons of it

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