As others have said, there isn’t anything wrong with finding a lady attractive. That’s not objectification, that’s evolution. The question is what you do with those feelings. If you respect the women you meet as individuals with their own hopes, desires, dreams, etc, then you are not objectifying them. If you look at them, find them beautiful, and then spend all your time thinking about how they could make you happier without thinking about what they want, that is objectification. The concept of “objectification of women” is an issue of respect, not of not having a sex drive. The idea comes from objectification meaning “treating a woman like an object” instead of “treating a woman like another human being whose feelings are just as important as yours.” We can stop objectifying women by informing and talking about it